Consent – Rules for Kinetik Speicher
At Kinetik Speicher all playing must be consensual.
We want to keep Kinetik Speicher as the lively place it is, with all the good vibes. In order to try to avoid unwanted things from happen, you should stick to the following rules of consent.
Consent is an agreement.
Consent is the permission for something to happen or an agreement to do something. Consent must always be explicitly and verbally negotiated when people play at Kinetik Speicher in a vanilla, sexy, kinky or bdsm-like way. Never assume your partners mindset and normalities are the same as yours.
Consent is a process. Don’t rush. All parts involved must at all times be able to agree to what is happening. Take care of each other’s needs before, during and after the scene. Check. Check again. Be courageous to talk about your feelings and act responsibly. Be aware that people can phase out or can get carried away by their emotions. That, of course, is a good thing. Yet it requires you to be extra present and watch your partner thoroughly.
Stop means stop.
The power always stays with the bottom. Control is handed over to the top temporarily and can always be revoked. No change may be made without the consent of all the partners. In scene negotiation should not be assumed to be standard and must be agreed apon before a scene. No means no! From all sides. It may be a good idea to have a safeword system in place, i. e. green, yellow, red. Freezing is not consent. Always keep an decent degree of self control, regardless of your feelings and emotions.
Be a good person and have fun. 😉